The Top Five Behaviors To Avoid If You Want To Be Successful…

By: Dave Dee on: January 22nd, 2013 6 Comments

The other day, something Dan Kennedy wrote triggered a memory of a profound statement a multi-millionaire once told me …

Dan talked about how we all have certain “self-sabotage” behaviors.

This made me remember a conversation I had at one of Dan’s seminars…

The seminar was packed with “players” who had spent their money, and more importantly, their time to continue learning how to market their business better. It was a great opportunity to meet, network and talk with mega-successful people who are so open to sharing their wisdom and secrets to success.

Anyway, after the seminar, the owner of a multi-million dollar franchising company said the following to me…

“I give all of my people a blueprint for how they can be successful, but when I get back home, I’m going to create a blueprint for how people can fail at their business as well. This way, they can check both blueprints and see if their behaviors are leading them down the road to success or the road to failure.”

Isn’t that a great idea?

We are always talking about what to do to be successful, but we don’t always talk about the behaviors that lead to failure. And part of becoming successful is eliminating the bad behaviors. Of course, if you don’t know what those are, it’s hard to get rid of them, right?

Here are some of the top behaviors that lead people to frustration, struggle and even failure:

1) Not investing in lead generation. Dan Kennedy says, “A business without a mailing list isn’t a business.” EVERY business should have a strategy for capturing names—not just from people who have purchased your products or services, but for prospects as well. Each new name acquired is a “gateway” to new business, repeat business, and referrals you wouldn’t otherwise have. You can create the greatest marketing campaign in the world, but if you don’t have a list of prospects to send it to or are unwilling to spend money to build a list, you are dead in the water.

2) Investing too heavily in one strategy. Too often I see business owners use only the Internet for all of their advertising. Even worse, is using just one Internet strategy—like only sending emails, or only using Pay Per Click to drive traffic to their site. This is an error of EPIC proportions. I admit I’ve even fallen into only using the Internet myself, but I guarantee you it’s not a trap I will fall into again.

In Dan Kennedy’s book, No B.S. Business Success In The New Economy, he says, “One is a very bad number, anywhere you find it…if one media produces a disproportionate percentage of your customers, you are subject to being summarily put out of business.” Even the biggest Internet marketers on the planet know they must integrate online and offline strategies…and that the marriage of these two is where their riches lie.

3) Not knowing who your ideal target market is. At Dan Kennedy’s Mailbox Millionaire seminar, Dan said, “At least half of the battle is won via selection, not ‘creative’ message, copy, offer, etc.” Mediocre marketing aimed at a very well selected target market will get superior results. However the best marketing message in the world aimed at a poorly selected target market will get you mediocre results at best. You can’t expect to effectively craft a powerful marketing message to attract your ideal customer, client or patient, if you don’t first have a very clear picture of who that person is. Clearly define who it is you are catering to, first. Then craft your message.

4) Not knowing how to sell. The most successful people I know are also master salespeople. If you don’t know how to sell, you are going to continue to struggle. In fact, in Sales and Persuasion Strategies, Dan discusses the ONE thing you must never do that incredibly 99% of all business owners do that creates a huge obstacle to selling. Once people remove their selling obstacles, not only do they see their profits soar, but they speed up the sale and stop competing for business too.

5) Not taking action. The one thing you will hear over and over and over again from our most successful members—and members who have transformed their business in what seems like overnight is to take “massive action.” You can think about getting rich all day long, but unless you DO something, customers are not going to magically appear and start giving you money. Worry less about failure and just get moving. The reality is the men and women of ACTION are the ones who are the wealthiest.

How many of these behaviors are you exhibiting? Focus on eliminating them this year and you will go a long way towards removing much of your frustration and struggle in your business.

What are some of the self-sabotaging behaviors you’ve eliminated that you feel helped you move forward? Why not share them in the comment section below.

NOTE: Another one of the top behaviors that lead to failure is not investing in continuing education and coaching. The most successful people I know are constantly investing both time and money in learning. I’ve heard people say, “Well he is rich so he can afford to go to seminars, hire coaches and buy products.”

The truth is that a person is successful because they invested time and money in training, coaching and education BEFORE they had the money to invest. Can you imagine someone wanting to get hired and paid as a doctor without investing in the education and training necessary first? I remember struggling to buy Dan Kennedy’s “Magnetic Marketing” program for $279 about 13 years ago. I can’t imagine where my life would be today if I had not invested in that.

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    About The Author: Dave Dee
    Dave Dee is one of Dan Kennedy's most successful students. Dave saw Dan speak over 16 years ago at one of the Peter Lowe Success Events when he was a struggling magician. He bought Magnetic Marketing and as you will hear when he tells you his story, his life changed in less than 90 days. Dave became a very serious student of Dan's by attending my seminars, joining his coaching group and most of all from implementing what he learned. Dave has become a top flight mentor and expert and is the GKIC Chief Marketing Officer. For more money-making marketing tips, tactics and strategies, go to www.GKIC.com

    6 Responses

    1. Mike says:

      Dave….great article and good solid advice that most of us forget.

      So many folks I know, including myself, have this wealth of knowledge but just have trouble forming the habits.

      One follow up question – what do you define as “massive action”?

    2. Edwin Soler says:

      Dave, great post. If I may add #6, get the trash that holds you back out of your head. Until you TRULY belive you can be successful, you never will. Head trash will destroy anyone, no matter how good they are at everything else.

    3. Tracey Hurst says:

      Thanks Dave this is great information and a real reminder that we need to take massive action to succeed in business. Look forwards to your next post as they help me to keep learning all the time too. Kind Regards
      Tracey

    4. Judy says:

      it seems that everyone with any website is advertising “coach” how does one pick the right coach for their needs?

    5. You hit some key points on what NOT to do.
      I particularly like- “Investing too heavily in one strategy”- I have fallen in to the trap of falling in love with one form of advertising. It is especially important to diversify your advertising methods to reach the optimum number of targeted customers.
      Plus- “Not knowing who your ideal target market is”- very important. I have seen people complain an advertising method does not work, when in reality they are advertising to the wrong target market.
      Thanks for sharing your insight.

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